difficulties in communication at the important points

I think that it was hard for her to get into real approachable shape in the higher realms and then come down and enter into a real communication with me for the following reasons:

extra suspicious control systems by the male on 10th chakra
several forces attempting to kill us
unstability of the female... think about it, she must have had a really tough time in the midst of all these weird events, and the suppressed and hurt female for centuries suddenly now discovering it's freedom

There was also some weird stuff going on in the spirit realms of hers, sometimes or many times they appear in a very concentrated forms, many beings in one body or one strong body carrying many beings, switching the entities as they wished to communicate, together or one after another.