how it is done

In order to experience the reality fully and cooperate to the highest light for our highest good, we can naturally open up to the following tendency:

move to the area where it is the most critical and give love

This means, within our species we have the natural skill to handle tough places. If we prioritize removing obstacles from the toughest spaces first, we can easily handle the rest of the group. Let me give you an example from the viewpoint of 4d highest love highest good, divine love:

"A group is making a spiritual gathering. One man disrupts the gathering constantly. He wants to show how it's done and do all on his own. Everyone is upset by him."

Now, what should we do? According to the law: move to the most critical first and give love, we put all of our focus on this critical place. Ok: he wants to do it on his own. Let's give him the chance. Let's encourage. See what's really inside him and bring the best out.

Let's say two people decide to become a support group for the misunderstood man. Soon he will show easily what he meant by "overtaking" the spiritual group. He can explain his desired rules and put it into safe practice with and under the guidance of skillful spiritual people, showing love towards him, helping him to grow even further.

Spiritual parenting is the very same thing. Inside a group, any two people can become a parent for a hurt child of any adult, thus taking care of unfulfilled needs of the collectively hurt child. Usually the inner child is hurt during the last 100 years (a war period), so it needs to be healed. For this we approach the inner child of others with great care and loving attention.

Meditation is best when the emotions rise over-head. We then take a few seconds or minutes off the uprising wave of power and realize, reflect, empty ourselves from it. Then we go back to the hurt inner child of other person, thus healing successfully the collective inner child.

With emotions of love, tenderness, caring presence, emitting peace, we can thus heal and pacify our hurt areas within our emotional and spiritual selves.